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Learn How to Give a Great Massage!

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You are amazing! Your body is full of magic and mystery. In over 30 years of doing bodywork I’ve discovered some of this vast mystery and magic that the human body holds, and am excited to discover together with you in the course of your massages, and share with you what I’ve learned in a personalized class.

I’m excited to share:

  • where there are potent points in the body that lead to quick relief,
  • what simple techniques there are to reduce tension where we carry it the most,
  • how to massage oneself or others in ways that leave us feeling better, too,
  • and more.

Leverage my learning from multiple certifications and over

30 years of experience.

  • Learn the 3 P’s that lead to a perfect massage.
  • Learn the 2 Q’s that set you up for success.
  • Learn the 1 request that is the source of my magic, and will be for you, too.
  • *Plus learn the key 3 steps that will keep you improving every time you practice.*

Whether you have some or no training in massage at all, this workshop is for you if you love to give, and receive, a great massage. Feel better right away and take home the tools to continue getting better and better at giving a professional-style massage that works for you and makes them Melt, every time.

No need to register for a whole course or massage training program.

In-person professional massage workshops and classes provide the personalized coaching you can’t get from a recorded video. Translate words and images into touch with a professional who can help you feel what you’re looking for and help you know when you’ve got it.

Sign up with a friend so you can practice on each other!

Small group 2 hour workshop:

 Dates: TBD

Secrets of Massage Magic Class – Foundations

Secrets of Massage Magic Class – Next Steps

Rate: $155 per student

 

Private “couples” classes (for partners or friends) starting at $229 / 1 hour: available during Melt’s regular business hours weekdays. Learn more here.

 

 

Logistics: Wear comfortable clothing. All massages done fully clothed for group workshops. All equipment and materials provided. Covid and general health protocols followed. If you’ve been sick or getting over being sick the week before workshop but well enough to be around babies/the elderly the day of workshop, you may be asked to wear a mask. Otherwise, please note my current Masking Policy

Let’s get Melting!

 

 

 

Couples Massage Class!

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You love your friend/partner.

You notice when they’re in pain or have tension.

You want to help them feel more relaxed.

You’d like to give them a massage, but you have questions…

 

How do I find the knots?

How much pressure should I use?

How can my massage be more relaxing for them?

  • Given their particular body’s history, aches, pains and injuries?
  • Given the format we’re working with – on the bed, the couch or the floor

How do I maintain my stamina without working so hard I need to get a massage after giving one?

Leverage my learning from multiple certifications and over

30 years of experience.

  • Learn the 3 P’s that lead to a perfect massage.
  • Learn the 2 Q’s that set you up for success.
  • Learn the 1 request that is the source of my magic, and will be for you, too.
  • *Plus learn the key 3 steps that will keep you improving every time you practice.*

Private Couples Massage Classes offered

In-person or Live online for

1 or 1 1/2 hours.

 

How it works – easily

  • We start with a Discovery Dialogue fleshing out the top nagging physical complaints for each of you; what they are, their history, contributing and relieving factors.
  • We Set Goals and Establish Expectations for our time together.
  • We assess your baseline Knowledge and I add to it

What to expect ~ Relief!

  • Fully clothed
  • We will
    • establish a baseline for skills
      • What self/other care do you already do?
      • What works/doesn’t?
      • What do you want to work better?
    • demonstrate techniques
      • you show me – what you do, so I can determine what to add to it
      • I show you / guide you – what else I would do
        • leveraging what you already do
          • + ergonomic tips
          • + how to get more out of what you already do
        • adding easy-to-use secrets I’ve learned over 30 years
          • customized for what works for (both of) you
    • practice, review & refine techniques for
      • safety,
      • effectiveness &
      • stamina.

What to take away – New Skills!

  • By the time we’re done you should have new and proven, easy and effective ways to help yourself and the loved ones feel lasting relief from stress and tension leveraging your learning from one massage to the next.

(Makes a great gift!)

Book Now!

Listed under Services (scroll down) for 1 or 1 1/2 hours of personalized, customized training and discover the healing that lives within Your hands!

In person – all Covid protocols followed. Also offered Live online, or “Virtually,” from the comfort of your own home!

Increase the learning with: Group classes!

 

 

Virtual Massage? Yes! (it works!)

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Revised June 16, 2023

Although there were many trials and tragedies from the pandemic, one thing I’m grateful for is that it gave birth to Melt’s Virtual Massage services!

It is different. But, it works!

Now offering real live online Private Couples Massage Class!

 

Clients of Private Online massage classes say,

“Feeling good. Slept better last night.” Rebecca D.

“…really appreciate getting to learn some new techniques and ways to make massages easier and more effective.” – Carla H.

“My pain seems to me to be markedly diminished….You are a good and patient teacher.” – Glenn H.

 

How it works – like the in-person Couples Class, but by video call instead:

  • We start with a Discovery Dialogue fleshing out the top nagging physical complaints for each of you; what they are, their history, contributing and relieving factors.
  • We Set Goals and Establish Expectations for our time together.
  • We assess your baseline Knowledge and I add to it

What to expect ~ Relief!

  • In the comfort of your own home
  • Fully clothed
  • We will
    • establish a baseline for skills
      • What self/other care do you already do?
      • What works/doesn’t?
      • What do you want to work better?
    • demonstrate techniques
      • you show me – what you do, so I can determine what to add to it
      • I show you / guide you – what else I would do
        • leveraging what you already do
          • + ergonomic tips
          • + how to get more out of what you already do
        • adding easy-to-use secrets I’ve learned over 20 years
          • customized for what works for (both of) you
    • practice, review & refine techniques for
      • safety,
      • effectiveness &
      • stamina.

What to take away – New Skills!

  • By the time we’re done you should have new and proven, easy and effective ways to help yourself and the loved ones feel lasting relief from stress and tension leveraging your learning from one massage to the next.

Book Live Online Private Classes

listed under Services (scroll down) for 1 or 1 1/2 hours of personalized, customized training and discover the healing that lives within Your hands!

 

 

 

From stress to less in 20 seconds

With focused attention you have the power to bring your stress level down in 20 seconds or less.

Here’s how:

Take a moment to notice your breath…
Where do you feel it rise as you inhale?
Where do you feel it fall as you exhale?

Again, but this time can you notice it more fully?
How high does it rise?
How low can it fall?

By now 20 seconds, on average, have passed.

Have you noticed yourself any calmer? More grounded? Even just a touch?

Imagine tripling this gift to yourself, repeating these cycles of focused attention two more times. Imagine how much calmer you’ll feel at the end when only a mere minute has passed but you’re more settled, more centered, thanks to your focused attention on your breath.

This isn’t going to change the stressors in your life, but if it can change how you respond to them, taking the edge off so you can come from a more centered, calmer and clearer self, would it be worth doing again?

Rinse. Repeat. Share.

Why do we cramp?

Why do we cramp? And how do we stop it?

Our worker, Eddy, came by yesterday to iron out plans with my partner for the next garden job. When they were done talking Eddy turned to me, knowing I do bodywork and asked, “Why does the back of my shoulder cramp up?” I know he was asking because he wanted to know why, but, maybe moreso, because he hoped that information could help him stop the pain from happening in the first place.

To address the 2nd question 1st, there is a quick and effective muscle magic trick which is worth a try in the interim before figuring out how to prevent the cramp in the first place.

The quick trick is: deactivate the cramping muscle by activating its opposite. For instance, if your calf is pulling your toes down from the back of your lower leg causing a calf cramp, use the muscles on the front of your leg to pull your toes up, to actively engage the opposite side. When this muscle magic trick is the right tool for the job, it works in seconds.

This ‘activate the opposite’ works because pairs of our muscles work opposite to one another. Ie., to do a bicep curl, to engage the bicep, to turn on the bicep, the opposite muscle, the tricep has to be ‘off,’ or disengaged. The opposite is true, too; to do a tricep extension, the bicep must be ‘off.’ Understanding this rule of opposites, helps with any muscle cramping if you think “what is the opposite of that muscle?” Mostly it’s front vs back of the body as opposites.

In the case of the back of a shoulder cramping, the opposite of the back of the shoulder would be the front of the shoulder, or primarily the Pectoralis Major muscle, or his “Pecs”. When Eddy felt the back of his shoulder cramping, if he were to engage his Pec muscles, like squeeze his Pecs together in the front, it could pretty immediately deactivate firing of the back of the shoulder muscles and relieve his cramping.

But it wouldn’t be enough to keep it from happening again if the reason it happened in the first place weren’t figured out and solved.

To address the 1st question now, the reason, I explained to Eddy, could be multiple reasons, either individually or in combination because the body is a combination of systems. Although we speak of it as one ‘thing’ the body is not simply one ‘thing.’ It is a sophisticated symphony of multiple systems collaborating in sync simultaneously to support your being and doing everything you are right now. And right now. And right now.

These systems include 12 physical systems, a number of mental/emotional/spiritual systems, existing in a number of environmental ecosystems across the 4th dimension: time.

The good news here is that as complex as these interactions are that result in who we are and how we feel right now, there are simple points of entry to explore to ease that cramping pain.

Cramps may boil down to 5 basic influences that I asked him about:

1) hydration – are you absorbing enough water, relative to caffeine and alcohol intake, for your urine to be a clear color and the skin on the back of your hand to rebound quickly when pulled up? We can drink a lot of water without absorbing it if we don’t have the right electrolyte balance from certain essential mineral nutrients.

2) nourishment/nutrients – do your muscles have enough and a good balance of minerals including salt, potassium, calcium and magnesium? We can lose these essential minerals when we sweat or urinate excessively. Replenish quickly with electrolytes. You can spend a lot of money on pre-made drinks or DIY simply at home with 1/4 tsp sea salt + 2 Tbsp lemon/lime juice in 24 oz of water.

3) activity – excessive activity or rapid change from doing nothing to exerting a lot. Are you working a lot, physically, without taking enough breaks to rest, stretch and refresh yourself? If you ended your workday 15-30 minutes later without cramping would it be worth it?

4) restoration – is your body getting enough high quality sleep to recuperate from the days’ activities? Is your bed supportive? Are you getting the right support from your pillow for your neck and head to be supported in anatomical neutral differently when you’re on your back vs on your side/s? When you’re on your back, to be anatomically neutral, your head needs little or no support and your neck could use some. When you’re on your sides, your head needs a certain amount to be anatomically neutral, or 90º to your shoulder, but your neck needs just a little more than your head to be in neutral. Do you have a good pillow that gives you what you need differently in these different positions? If not, consider playing around with different pillows to get the right neck and head support to have restorative sleep or check-out the Tri-Core pillow.

5) nerves – are your nerves feeding those muscles compromised in any way, maybe pinched at the neck? If that part feels worse sleeping on one side, that may be a sign that your nerves to that area are being pinched. If that pain in bed is relieved by proper neck support, which will be different when you’re on your back vs on your sides, then it’s a sign that getting the right support from your pillow is essential. If your neck is well supported in anatomical neutral whether your on your back or your side, it may be time to consider getting a massage and/or seeing a Chiropractor.

If all 5 of these factors are addressed and you’re still having cramps, it would be worth discussing with your doctor to rule out:

  • Narrowing arteries feeding blood to those muscles
  • Excess weight as a factor
  • Diabetes

Usually cramps go away on their own. In my massage practice I often hear clients talk about “walking off a cramp.” If you try to ‘activate the opposite’ you may never have to get out of bed again to turn a cramp off. Give it a try. Let me know how it works for you, or if not, so we might explore a more efficient way to help you sleep well at night and feel better by day.

 

 

Your body is Amazing!! Behind the curtain – your lymphatic system fighting for your health

The human body is amazing! Simultaneously delicate and resilience, and that dichotomy is no better demonstrated than in that system of your body whose basic purpose is to protect your body and help it win battles against viruses and infections: your lymphatic system.

Did you know that initial lymph vessels are one single endothelial cell thick, approximately the size of a human hair?

And yet, it is your lymph system that battles illness for you and most often wins.

It is “estimated that without lymphatic flow, the average resting person would die within 24 hours” (Guyton and Hall Textbook of Medical Physiology.) On it’s own, lymph moves 3-7 times per minute in your body. With the help of Manual Lymphatic Drainage treatment, that efficacy increases to up to 30 times per minute. This means, more effective, more efficient, better faster.

Wonder what that looks like? So did some research scientists who figured out how and created this amazing video of lymph moving during a Manual Lymphatic Drainage treatment. (Science from the Journal, Annual Review of Medicine.)

Watch your lymph flow with the support of Manual Lymphatic Drainage (not massage) Skin Treatment!

Your body is Amazing!!

I’m so thrilled to be able to add this modality to my toolkit for use supporting your health and wellbeing.

 

Stay tuned for more on MLD; when it’s indicated, when it is not, and the variety of conditions it can help.

Secrets of Massage Magic – Class

Leverage my learning from multiple certifications and over 30 years of experience.

  • Learn the 3 P’s that lead to a perfect massage.
  • Learn the 2 Q’s that set you up for success.
  • Learn the 1 request that is the source of my magic, and will be for you, too.
  • *Plus learn the key 3 steps that will keep you improving every time you practice.*

Learn more and sign up for the

Next class: now June 6, 2026

 

How I work

My goal is to meet your needs and exceed your expectations. I have the best chance of that success when we have open dialogue about your goals, your history and your experience of the work, in real-time, and I answer your questions, concerns and requests to your satisfaction.

This conversation with your body has me asking you, and it, what does it need right now? Which modality that I can offer will benefit it best?: Shiatsu Acupressure (over clothing or directly on skin), Swedish (and which of the 5 Swedish styles), Sports Massage (Active, Passive or a combination), Myofascial Release (traditional slow or medium pace), Trigger Point (at what depth), Reflexology (for hands and/or feet and/or ears), Pregnancy massage techniques (whether pregnant, in any trimester, ready to deliver (inducing), post-partum, or not at all), Hospice massage (whether actively living or actively dying), Scar tissue release (for visible or invisible scars), Deep Tissue, Cupping (with silicon or hard plastic, Static or dynamic cupping), Kinesiotaping (for inflammation reduction or structural support), or Manual Lymphatic Drainage (for a whole host of reasons, the least of which is basic immune support), overall central nervous system desensitization or activation, Vagus nerve regulation, detox/digestion/elimination support and what combination of which of these modalities when, where and for how long?

And in which area/s of the body, and at what depths of pressure, and for how long until they’re ‘done’ while keeping in mind the initial goal of the session within the time allowed…?

If we’re not getting results in real-time, for instance, from lower back pain by working directly on the back will we have better results working with you lying on your side (“side-lying”) or on your back and working the front of the back muscles deep in your abdomen?

I am thinking, sensing, asking, adjusting, listening to meet your goals and exceed your expectations, but I can’t do it without your participation and collaboration. When we work together we achieve success faster and help you feel better and better.

I am grateful for my clients who give me this opportunity for them to enjoy being themselves more and more. Thank you..

Manual Lymphatic Drainage…is Not Lymphatic Drainage Massage!

Our lymphatic system is responsible for maintaining the balance of fluids in our bodies, assisting in absorption of fats and supporting our immune function. We know it’s not working optimally when we have swelling that takes a long time or simply doesn’t go down or when it takes longer than normal to get well. Manual Lymphatic Drainage (MLD) skin treatment was developed to solve this problem. The gold-standard MLD is the Vodder method, developed in the 1930’s by Emil and Estrid Vodder.

Unlike lymphatic massage, MLD is applied with specific strokes in specific orders, at an average pressure of 30-32 mmHg or 0.7 psi. Think of the psi for your car tire or bike tire. Yeah. Significantly less than that. And at That pressure it is most effective. If you’re getting a lymphatic treatment with pressure greater than stroking a newborn’s head, it’s not MLD.

I am honored to study with the highly trained and skilled, Vodder MLD master teacher, Gay Lee Gulbrandson and bring the benefits of this training to you.

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